爱你没有如果


每天搭乘公車上下班,來回通勤時間約莫近二小時,
有時人少,可坐在位置上欣賞窗外的風景;
人多時,也只能慢慢地擠回家,
但這時,身邊乘客的對話總會不時地傳到耳邊。


前日往回家的公車上,轉程靠站時,乘客頓時多了起來。
一對上班族男女恰巧在我身邊,吸引了我的目光。
可能因為人多,男的不時地將手臂圍住女的,
並輕聲的問

「累不累?」
「待會想吃些什麼?」


只見女的不耐煩地回答

「我已經夠煩了,吃什麼都還不先決定,每次都要問我。」

男的一臉無辜的低下頭,而後說了令我印象深刻的話。

「讓妳決定是因為希望能夠陪妳吃妳喜歡的東西,然後看到妳滿足的笑容,把今天工作的不愉快暫時忘掉。我的能力不足,妳工作上所受的委屈我沒法幫妳,我所能做的也只有這樣。」

女的聽了後,滿懷愧疚的說聲對不起。
男的這才似乎重燃信心般說:

「沒關係,只要你開心就好。」

而後親吻了女的頭髮。
下車前再回頭看看這對情侶,
男的依舊保護著心愛的人。


這樣的情景,
讓我覺得自己今天同樣在工作上有些許不愉快,
如果沒有聽到這一段對話,回家後的我,
可能也是一副全世界都對不起我的臭臉面對心愛的人,
只在乎自己的委屈,
卻忽視對方的感受,
不自覺地傷害最親密的人。


所以在踏進家門時,我問自己,
難道我要像公車上那位女孩一樣忍心
將自己的不滿委屈帶給身旁的人嗎?


不,我想我現在應該做的是...
別再把工作上的情緒發洩在心愛的人身上,
破壞了最親密的關係,
並且主動給自己一個微笑。


相遇,不是用來生氣的!說得真好!
當自己快抓不住情緒時,想想這句話,
應該會讓煩忙的生活,加些微笑的因子吧!
同樣地,在日常生活中,我們牽掛得太多,
我們太在意得失,所以我們的情緒起伏,
我們不快樂。在生氣之際,我們如能多想想︰

「我不是為了生氣而工作的。」
「我不是為了生氣而教書的。」
「我不是為了生氣而交朋友的。」
「我不是為了生氣而作夫妻的。」
「我不是為了生氣而生兒育女的。」

那麼我們會為我們煩惱的心情闢出另一番安詳


看完之後
當你和朋友..家人爭執時…
要記得你們的相遇…
不是用來生氣的喔…


但...人非聖賢...
誰能不生氣呢…
看了這篇文章以後…
記得.....下次要生氣時…
就別生太久…
免得傷心、傷肝、傷腎又傷腸胃…

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FALL IN LOVE with Adamo by DELL



Adamo by DELL, world's slimmest (16.4mm) yet luxurious laptop has finally been pre-launch in Malaysia.

The laptop is powered by Intel Core 2 Duo 1.4GHz Centrino Technology, 4GB RAM, 128GB Solid State HDD, Alumunium Chasis, slot-load DVD-drive accessory, 13.4" High Definition Edge-to-edge Glass LCD with 1.3MP webcam and Backlit scalloped-Keyboard.

The current pre-launch pricing is at
RM 9,989.00
心-照


你的出现,带来的不只是惊喜,还有幸福。


但你的生活是否如彩虹般那么多姿多彩?


长的,是三千丝的烦恼


短的,离不开三千丝忧虑


伤了、痛了,依然得往前走


你们的存在,让人生更有意义

An Opportunity to CHEAT



S found M via online networking. S, it's an unknown fellow that admire and found M's MSN from somewhere. While M is a attached or in a relationship.

S : "Are you single or attached?"

M : "I'm single!"


Do you see the big threat for both of them?

If you are single, you are right to tell everyone that you are single. But if it's otherwise, you should tell the fact.

By telling people that you are single when in reality you are attached, you are just being an evil that creating an endless opportunity to your admirer to go after you.

Vice versa, you are creating an opportunity for yourself to cheat and being disloyal in relationship.

The minute you tell others you are SINGLE, ask yourself indeed if you really love your current lover or instead you are craving for more? 

More endless desires, more endless admirers, more endless satisfaction, more endless sex...

You don't call ONS as make love, we call it sex
You don't call love as relationship, we call it sex partner

If you are not ready to commit in this relationship, you may leave...
If you are not guilty, you may leave...

Tell the facts, be good to you and others!

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爱情不是职业 Love isn't a Job




我爱你
我想你

这也不是一种甜言蜜语
说出来是出自内心感觉
并非因为我是你的爱人
而形同是做爱人的责任

为何有些人却把爱情当成职业看待?
如应征得到工作后就当成职员责任
对工作如此我毫无异议
对爱也竟是如此
我确实无法接受
这是没有爱的爱
这是职业上的爱

如你能把爱情当作职业看待
那为何你就是不能安分守己?
做好自己本分当称职的爱人
非要在情人背后进行背叛罪?

请用真心去爱
非因职责而爱
真正的懂得爱
没有口是心非

一次不忠 百次不容
一次背叛 心如刀割
一次虚伪 永恒的痛

我们亲眼所看到的
他人眼中并非如此
我们觉得对的
他人未必认为

这不是注定
是人为释疑
这不是责任
是指真感情

用真心关怀我
用真爱爱护我
想念你的拥抱
想念你的爱吻

想念你的一切
只因真的爱你

没有偷欢 没有背叛
没有玩弄 没有口角
没有欺骗 没有疑惑
没有闪躲 没有问题


I love you
I miss you

It's not a conversation of sweet talk
It was expressed from the bottom heart
It's not due to my role as a lover
It never became a responsibility of words by lover

Certain people seeing love as a job
No differences of being hired and be a responsible staff
There's no dispute if it's towards work
There's a conflict if it's towards relationship
It's a relationship of no love
It's a career of love

If you see love as a career
Why can't you do what is right?
If you are responsible to your duty
Why you can't being honest and loyal?

Say it from your heart
Love with your true feelings
Not with duty of words
It ain't your job
Nor a duty of love

Once disloyal ; Never forgiven
Once betrayed ; Heart is broken
Once pretended ; Forever is in vain

Sometimes we seen things in our way
But it's differrent for others
We seen it right
Others may seen it otherwise

It's not about fated
It's about human being
It's not about responsibility
It's about true feelings

Care me with your heart
Love me with your soul
I miss your hugs
I miss your kisses

I miss everything of you
Because I love you

No flirt ; No betrayal
No prank ; No conflict
No lie ; No doubt
No hide ; No problem

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Dedication of Life



Life is short 
Yet we learned and experienced
Bitter or sweet
It's the journey of life

I can't deny my existence in this world
I can't deny that I have found you 
If I don't know your existence
My life wouldn't be so exciting 

You colored my world
You taught me being loved
I miss you
I want you
But I can't have you

We might not destined to be together
We are destined to know each other
I never mind if you do not love me
I only mind if you are avoiding me

Just let it be
So yesterday
Eye today
Foresee tomorrow

Do you feel the same?

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DELL Innovation

Oh gosh, I couldn't resist DELL any longer.

Previously, DELL has been given me an impression of it's boring design and bulky size of laptop, and perceived it as "born-for-business", not suitable for those like student and home use.

When I was worked in DELL as Credit Analyst till I being promoted to Senior position, I find that DELL is making a change. The models of laptop in 2004 is way much better than 2002/3. Until February 2005, I got my very first business-use laptop, DELL Latitude D505.

Currently, I'm still using it, to surf net, edit pictures and even blogging. The most significant changes of my laptop would be changing of LCD twice, which is covered under 3-year warranty but can't deny that DELL is really stupid for still replacing LG-Phillips matte LCD. In 2008, I changed the LCD by myself, ordered from eBay, shipped from Taiwan, it's Sharp High Gloss Aquos LCD.

Another change would be the OS. I don't know what is wrong with my Windows XP Professional SP3, though I have fomatted the HDD for "N" times but it still could not write the OS files into the HDD. Thus, I'm installing Windows Vista Home Basic. It works and obviously, run even FASTER!

But my intention of wring this blog is introducing DELL latest innovation. Ladies and gentlemen, I'm presenting DELL Studio XPS and Adamo by DELL.

DELL XPS is built mainly for multi-task and gaming purpose. With it's outstanding and astonishing looks, it has been recognised and awarded as Best Notebook of the year. Now DELL has got a new version named DELL Studio XPS, it's a combination of DELL Studio and DELL XPS laptop, the outlook is much improved with not only chrome and high gloss surface, but GENUINE LEATHER! Inside features backlit keyboard, TV Tuner with Remote Control, touch pad, slot-load CD Drive and FULL HD 1080P.


Adamo by DELL is a high-end notebook and well known as "World's Slimmest Notebook". So now you know MacBook Air has got a rival. Adamo by DELL Mini 10 is not only slim and light weight, it looks much elegant and classy compared to all notebook in the world. If Vertu is the most luxurious mobile in the world, Adamo is the world's most luxurious notebook. Check out the pics posted above.

第一个 The First



我期待今天
今天的电话
简单的短讯
我想你会记得我

等了又等
一分一秒
看着时间走
失望 开始攀升
期待 开始滑落

我的心跳加强
犹如踩着油门
飙车般的心情
想快速的带过

七时收到的礼物
四小时后仍不见你踪影
我则像是掉落了山谷般
看不到那曾经灿烂过的光芒
决心定下了十二时前的期限

原以为这就是结局
大限前夕的十五分
来了却是你的电话
看着电话里的照片

我是开心 还是意外
这是天意 还是巧合

虽然你做到了
但是我心疼了
虽然小事一樁
但是还是失望

谢谢你的通话
谢谢你的安慰

我知道我不是第一个

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SaiGon VII | 回马的噩梦(完结篇)Return to Nightmare(END)


最讨厌就是搭亚洲航空飞机前,要提早45分钟登记,否则就不让你上机。
It's never been a good experience of flying AirAsia, you need to be there 45 minutes earlier to check-in, or you will be rejected.

还好我住的地方离机场不是很远,十分钟既到达。但是摩托骑士超多,多到我都不敢相信,心里却开始着急,很担心来不及,我也做好了最坏的打算。
Luckily I'm staying somewhere nearby the Tan Son Nhat International Airport, about 10 minutes to reach. However, it's so unbelievable to see thousands of motorists in the early morning, I started to get nervous and prepared for the worst, as I know I might missed flight.

将到机场时,我快速准备了的士费,一到机场,以最快的速度付的士费,然后如穿上了“高速鞋”,匆匆忙忙的扫过所有柜台。还好亚洲航空“够红”,而且来往胡志民市的航班不多,一看就看到了。登记时,地勤员看到我喘不过气来时都觉得奇怪,但是庆幸的是我成功登记了。要是在大马或曼谷,你稍微迟一分钟,你休想上机。
About to reach the airport, I am prepared with exact cash on hand. Once the cab was stopped at the departure hall, I quickly pay the cab fees and ran into the hall with my "Super Duper Speed Boots", locating the counter in a glance. Thanks to the RED of AirAsia, also the routes to and from Saigon is lesser, hence, it is not hard to locate the check-in counter. At the desk of check-in, ground crews were curious seeing me breathless, but no matter how, I've made it. Imagine that if you are in Bangkok or Malaysia, though you are one minute late, you are not allowed to check-in.



众所周知,亚航登机证都是传真纸印出来的;要登上亚航必须先步出机场,然后再爬楼梯上机。可是在胡志明市,登机证用的是如同马航等的登机证;登记时亦是如同马航般,有轨道连接。乘搭亚航那么多次,第一次体验冷气登机,不必“日晒雨淋”。
All of us knew that the boarding pass of AirAsia is printed on thermal paper, for boarding, you are required to walk down to the street and climb the staircase to get on board. But here in Saigon, the boarding pass is printed on the card exactly same as MAS and other airlines, even for boarding, you are enjoying the subway same like MAS and etc. So long I have flew with AirAsia, this would be the first ever I'm enjoying the air-conditioned boarding, instead of getting sun tanned or water rained on me.




在机上我一直不停地往外拍照,希望可拍到越南其他城市的鸟瞰。这次也是我第一次在机上享用他们的食物。原本是叫了越南品牌的蜜糖绿茶,可是他们只有Lipton的绿茶;那也算了,后来我点了椰浆饭,他们却告知只有鸡饭,我真的被他们炸到,因为菜单明明写着椰浆饭只有AK航班才有,鸡饭只有FD航班才有,可是现在怎么掉转了?还好Lipton的绿茶并不甜;鸡饭亦好吃。整体上,我对这一次飞行亚航AK141航班感到非常满意,至少空姐服务好,有笑容,也没那么“海鲜”。
While on board, most of my time are busy for snapshots, to capture other cities of Vietnam from the panoramic view. Also, this would be my first time having AirAsia meals. I ordered Vietnam brand Green Tea with Honey, but they only offered Lipton Green Tea. I then ordered Nasi Lemak, they told me they only have Chicken Rice now. I was totally stunned because I read their menu! Their menu clearly stated that Nasi Lemak only available in AK flights, while Chicken Rice only available in FD flights, now both are upside down, so what the heck are all these? In the end, I was glad that the green tea is tasted not so sweet and the Chicken Rice taste good as well. Overall, I would say that I'm really satisfied for flying AK141, at absolutely least, the stewardesses looks good, with good services and smile on face.


抵达吉隆坡廉航机场,我们全部都被炸到。
When arriving LCCT, we all were complaining.

从下机到国际入境处,竟然要走接近两公里。最好笑的就是必须先上一楼的入境处检阅后,再回到底层的国际出境厅领取行李后,才步出大厅,而且灯光不足。而我国的国际出境厅等候处竟然在门口外的马路,还比不上国内出境厅!要搭巴士前往市区,则需要多走约300米,很荒谬!
From the time we walked down to the street, proceeding to International Arrival Hall, we walked merely 2km! The most hilarious arrangement is you need to go to 1st floor for immigration check-in, then proceed to ground floor again to collect your baggage for check-out, furthermore, the hall is lack of lighting. Comparing the waiting hall between Domestic and International flights, it is a shame to see it now being located close to the street of exit of International Arrival Hall. Those who required bus services to the city, you need to walk another 300m to catch the bus, it's totally ridiculous.



要是政府有考虑到马来西亚的面子及印象,临时的国际出境厅也应该有吧!要知道目前有多少旅客都是乘搭廉价航班前来观光的,如果政府无意兴建一座完整且有素质的廉航机场,那我并不觉得亚航与森那美于拉务私营的廉航机场“国民的总站”是不好的建议!
I believe that a proper temporary waiting hall for International flight is indeed a need, it relates to the image and dignity of the country and government. It can be seen that majority of tourists nowadays are flying low cost airlines, if government has no will to construct a quality yet complete LCCT, I do not think that the proposed idea of privatised LCCT "The Rakyat's Terminal" at KLIA@EAST LABU by AirAsia and Sime Darby is a bad proposal.
AGAIN is not the key word!



I'm wondering how could "AGAIN", an adverb become a key word in a sentence.

If you have a friend facing problems lately and a day later, he/she is telling you that he/she is moody and unhappy, will you ask "what happened again"?

I did that. But this buddy did not tell me what is wrong, saying that I shall not use the word "Again", and ask me his life is it so much of hassle and troubles. Worse still, saying I'm not being supportive.

This is NATURAL ABILITY, another words, COMMON SENSE. It's a NATURAL RESPONSIVE of human. I'm not trying to burden him nor tease him for having troubles "again", but just to know what had just happaned right after previous incident, am I wrong?

I do not know why he is so particular on the word "AGAIN" as my main point of question would be "WHAT HAPPENED". If you are doing summary of essay in dialogue, will you highlight "AGAIN"?

Without knowing what is wrong or what had happened to you, how could I being supportive or gives you suggesstion or the simpliest, being a listener?

The first statement that given by him is only confessing that he is down and unhappy, did not tell me what is wrong. And of course I believe you are awaiting me to prompt the next question, to check and knowing what is wrong.

I'm just wondering, is it "AGAIN" so important in that sentence?

I'm here to ask and to know what has gone wrong, to care, ain't here to fight. Because of this, we brought ourselves into unnecessary conflict.

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SaiGoN VI | 最后的体验 Last Enjoyment

时间过得真快,一转眼今天是我最后一天在越南了。
Time flies, today would be my last visit in Saigon.



今天什么地方都不想去 ,反而留在家看书,看到一半却睡着了。醒来时,和友人到 Diamond Plaza 逛逛买手信给B。我发现这儿的生活水平不高,可是样样东西都很贵,比起大马的,有些贵多了;连B的也不便宜哦!不过是B的,再贵也无所谓,最主要的是我是否负担得起。
In fact, I don't feel like going anywhere, but reading at home instead. Without any notice, I fell sleep, it has been my bad habit. While awake, friends were invited to Diamond Plaza for walk as previously I have informed them that I need to get a souvenir for my BB. I find that the living expenses over here is not so high, but I could see from the prices even for normal groceries, the selling prices obviously is much higher than Malaysia; even the one that I bought for my BB is rated "expensive" by local Vietnamese. But I'm just wondering if I can afford it, why not?


稍候我们到了位于 Nha Vinh Supermarket 附近一间蛮著名的牛肉面家。一踏入店内,就可闻到一股很重的牛肉味。我叫了“半生丸”,再自行加入一些蔬菜如香菜、豆芽等。
After the shopping spree, we went to a Beef Noodle House nearby Nha Vinh Supermarket. Once I stepped into the shop, the scenes of beef covered the oxygen in the air. I ordered a bowl of Beef Balls Noodles, with some veges as extra ingredients and local coriander and sauces as seasoning.



Nha Vinh Supermarket 外有一间小咖啡屋叫 Ara Coffee,最吸引我的不是它的咖啡,而是以砖块砌成的桌子,很可爱吧?!
Nearby the entrance of Nha Vinh Supermarket, there is a little cafe named Ara Coffee. What attract my attention most would be the handmade tiles table, which combines all small pieces of colorful tiles to a big picture. Cute, isn't it?







晚餐则品尝了越南人最爱的“腊味”。有猪肚、猪耳、猪舌、猪肝、青瓜、葱及天椒,然后再配上特制酱料及可口又脆皮的面包,蛮好吃的。
My dinner would be the local favorites. There are few parts of pork, with option of mixture of cucumber, parsley and chili, specially-made sauce as seasoning, and crunchy soft bread to eat together. I say, it's good!

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